Yeah, I didn't express myself very well I'm afraid. Unsettling is probably the wrong word to use but I couldn't come up with a better one for the particular quality of mental dissonance I sometimes experience when looking at Gerard pics. The way he can look neither male nor female but both at once is both very attractive but also, well, unsettling. It doesn't have anything to do with the crossdressing though so I definitely need to come up with a better way of wording it. *ponders* ETA: Done!